


Learning To Be MySELF and Helping You BE Too!
Fear of Laziness vs. The Willpower Myth
Mon, Mar 16
|Youtube Premiere
From shaming myself into action to doing the work without judgement.


Time & Location
Mar 16, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM MDT
Youtube Premiere
About the event
There’s a common myth that if you’re not taking action, you’re being lazy — and that the solution is simply more willpower. But the truth is that ‘laziness’ is often a neurological or systemic mismatch, not a character flaw. This misunderstanding leads to chronic shame, burnout cycles, and a constant fear of falling behind.
In this video, we explore the fear of laziness and the willpower myth — how nervous system regulation, environment, executive function, conditioning, and productivity culture shape our habits, behaviors, and self-perception. You’ll learn why willpower is unreliable, how behavioral activation actually works, and what it takes to build sustainable, values-aligned action without self-punishment. We’ll also examine how intentional rest and realistic pacing can function as resistance within systems that equate worth with output.
Watch the full video on YouTube to apply these insights in your life. Don’t rely on shame or forced discipline; learn how to…